10 Things You Should Never Say To A Guy

Ladies, if you want to have a successful dating life, certain phrases should never come out of your glossy lips. Here they are:

1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN? You�ll see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, he�ll call. If not, next. You don�t have time for anyone that doesn�t have time for you.

2. WHY DIDN�T YOU CALL? There�s only one answer to this question: Because he didn�t want to!!! What you�re really asking is, �Why didn�t you want to call me?� Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn�t be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don�t be so quick to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it�s a big mess!

3. WHERE WERE YOU? If he wanted you to know where he was, he�d tell you. What you�re really asking is, �Where you with another female that you like better than me?� Your insecurity is showing, my dear. If anything, he should be wondering where you were.

4. I LOVE YOU (FIRST) - You�re saying it in the hopes that he�ll say it back, but what if he doesn�t? You�ll be devastated and probably feel foolish. Saying �I love you� is not going to speed things up if he�s not ready to say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it when he�s ready.

5. DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? As long as he�s not sleeping with her now, who cares? The past is gone. Don�t torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss.

6. I�M PREGNANT. In 2005, with all the birth control choices available, there is no excuse for becoming pregnant, unless you want to be. You should be using something and he should use a condom, every time.

7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Nowhere fast if that�s your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that�s constantly worrying about the future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where it�s going. If it�s going somewhere, you�ll know it. If it�s not, you�ll know it too.

8. WE NEED TO TALK. This is the equivalent of, �Go to the principal�s office�. Guys know it�s not going to be a fun conversation, so they�re already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don�t try to talk to him when he�s tired, stressed or trying to watch tv!

9. I HATE YOU! Even if you do, it�s totally uncalled for and un-lady like. If there�s an issue, be mature enough to discuss it when you�re calm. If he�s breaking up with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily, but it�s best to remain calm and act unfazed. He�ll wonder why you�re so cool about it and that may make him re-think his decision. Always be pleasant during a break up. Do you want to be known as the girl that goes psycho if someone breaks up with her?? I didn�t think so.

10. I DON�T TRUST YOU. What you�re actually saying is, �You need to step up your game, because I can see you�re up to something.� If he is up to something, he�ll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb-it�ll be easier to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicions.

About the Author: Lucia is a dating and relationship expert, columnist, lecturer and host of the TV Show "The Art of Love".
With over 20 years experience on the relationship market, Lucia's practical know-how makes her the perfect candidate to dispense advice � in almost every dating dilemma she has been there, done that and lived to tell about it.
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